Sexological Bodyworker

I am a certified Sexological Bodyworker (certified through the State of California Department of Education under the auspices of the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality). This is somatic sex education which helps clients to increase awareness of their sexuality, and use their sexual energy for healing and transformation. Clients may seek assistance in enhancing enjoyment of their sexuality, overcoming shame and inhibition, opening to awareness of the flow of erotic energy in their bodies, or improving their sexual functioning and pleasure during masturbation or partner sex. The bodyworker assists the client in clarifying their goals and intentions for the work. The client will usually see the bodyworker for a series of 3-8 sessions and then work with what they have learned. Clients may then return for individual sessions as needed.

The modalities used by sexological bodyworkers may include: orgasmic breathwork, erotic massage, anal massage, pelvic release massage, masturbation coaching, and sex coaching. Bodyworkers may work with individuals, couples and groups.

Although I utilize all the modalities above, my specialties are:

    * Pelvic Release Massage
    * Anal/prostate massage
    * Masturbation coaching for women and men
    * Taoist erotic massage with breathwork
    * Sensual/erotic touch training for couples
    * Sex Coaching

Pelvic Release Massage

This massage involves techniques for releasing tension and pain in the pelvic area. This may include massage of surrounding muscle groups, as well as direct massage in the genital and anal areas (internal and external).

Benefits of pelvic release massage:

• It can help reduce pain in the pelvic area
• Some clients report a felling of more "space" and ease of movement
• It can be a great warm-up for an erotic massage, masturbation or lovemaking
• It can help release areas of chronic tension
• It can be erotically pleasurable
• Like any massage therapy, it can promote better circulation, awareness,
  and sensations in the body

Anal Massage

Using various techniques for anal massage, both internal and external.

Benefits of anal massage:

• Relaxing the anus often leads to deeper full-body relaxation.
• Sensitive anal massage may help heal hemorrhoids
• For men, prostate massage feels good and can be beneficial
  for the prostate gland
• When combined with genital massage, anal massage can be
  very erotically pleasurable
• Anal massage given by a caring, skilled professional can help the client to relax this part of their body and begin to overcome shame

Masturbation Coaching

Coaching clients in achieving more pleasure and a different relationship to their bodies during solo sex.

Some of the benefits of masturbation coaching include:

• Learning new techniques for enhancing solosex sessions (i.e. breathing, movement, self-massage, other erotic self-pleasuring techniques and strokes)
• Clients can begin to understand and heal shame around masturbation and achieve a better acceptance of themselves and their sexuality
• Clients can feel encouraged and supported in expressing their sexuality through self-pleasuring and feel assisted in overcoming
  inhibitions to pleasure

Taoist Erotic Massage

Using various techniques for genital massage (male and female)

Benefits of erotic massage:

• It feels good!
• It is educational. Clients can learn more techniques for self-pleasuring and lovemaking with a partner. They can learn more about their bodies as well as their erotic
  and sensual potential.
• Clients can feel encouraged and supported in expressing their sexuality through self-pleasuring and feel assisted in overcoming
  inhibitions to pleasure.
• When combined with conscious breathing during a Taoist Erotic Massage (TEM), it can assist the client in achieving a high state of arousal, circulate sexual energy throughout their whole body and lead to an altered state of consciousness, followed by a feeling of blissful relaxation.
• Men can learn more ejaculatory control by focusing on breathing and relaxing while receiving constant, varied genital stimulation.
• Women can experience awareness and pleasure in all the parts of their vulva, vagina, and g-spot areas.

Sensual/Erotic Touch Training
for Individuals and Couples

Learning touch skills that may be applied to massage and lovemaking

Benefits of Touch Training:

• Learning how to wake up your hands and enhance the sensitivity of your touch
• Learning sensual techniques that may be applied to the whole body, as well as specific genital and anal massage skills
• Relaxing and slowing down, learning to savor the delights of sensual and erotic touch
• Learning to be more present with your partner in the moment, allowing for deeper intimacy

Sex Coaching

Coaching clients in techniques and attitudes that will help them and their partners achieve a more satisfying experience of their sexuality. This can be done individually with clients or with couples or groups.

Benefits of Sex Coaching:

• Clients and their partners can get private coaching in techniques and attitudes that will enhance their sexual enjoyment with their partners.
• Clients can receive expert assistance in resolving specific sexual dysfunctions (i.e. difficulty with orgasms, premature ejaculation, difficulty achieving erection, lack of interest in sex).

Holistic Massage Therapist

I am a nationally-certified massage therapist with over 25 years of experience. I have worked extensively with clients in private practice, managed a successful massage service at the University of California, San Francisco, and have also taught massage therapy to individuals and groups.

Currently my work combines deep, gentle Esalen-style strokes with relaxing, rocking, rhythmic movements with the intention of relieving pain and stiffness and increasing joint mobility. I often include energy techniques from Reiki, Polarity and Acupressure to deepen the relaxation and increase energy flow throughout the body.

I offer private massage sessions for 1 hour, 1.5 and 2 hours. I can design classes for individuals, couples and groups. For more information or to arrange an appointment for a massage session or a massage class, please email me.

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